Getting what we need when we need it

As I was saying yesterday I almost went to a meeting, but decided what I really needed to do was put my directions elsewhere. Today I saw that I had a comment from Garnet, and that led me to discover Garnet and read the profile- a doctor with some years of Alanon experience. It is interesting to read Garnet's blog and see the Alanon life applied to non-alcoholics. This happens to be where I am at now. I am not sure if I need to detach from my husband (with love) or not. I'm not sure if I should be treating him the way I treat an alcoholic. I'm very conflicted about this. However seeing Garnet's blog definitely made me feel less alone, and more grateful. Sometimes Alanon gives us exactly what we need. Thank you.

Link to Garnet's blog--   http://wisdomdifference.blogspot.com/